It's funny that when I think that I had grasped the concept of friendship (after going through a few bad ones), whether it's acceptance or tolerance, the boundaries are still so vague.
I thought I can accept a friend as her/his ownself but it's not easy. How do you tell a friend you do not like her/his ways when she/he does not see the fault? It is afterall their cumulative and cultivated character and habits over the years.
Confused. Will I be known as a hypocrite if I still be friends but distant at the same time cos of the thoughts?
I guess being myself is the safest bet. *whatever that means*
I know I am full of flaws too but I am definitely up for suggestions and changes if I deem reasonable le.
Then there's always avoidance. Like some people who I do not find need to acknowledge. Mean~
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